The rise
and fall of a citizen in Hanover Park, Illinois.
When
a nail stands out on your deck it’s obvious it’s out of place. Our instinct is
hammer it back down so it stays in line with the rest of the nails. Without it,
the deck does not hold together. Unpleasant warping and creaking appears. Over
time the nail keeps creeping up. What is so special about this nail? It is
identical to all the other nails and yet it refuses to hold. The nail must be
defective. The deck owner takes no more of this anarchy and removes the nail to
be replaced by a screw. Was the nail truly defective? I don’t think so. Maybe
the nail was meant to serve another purpose other than holding a deck together.
There are unseen forces causing it to rise. Don’t throw the nail away…
I
came to Hanover Park in the fall of 1993. I
was a 20 years old and full of ambition. I had a factory job getting 10 hours
or more a week in over time. My first home in Hanover Park
was at 6724 Pinetree. I rented a cozy two bedroom cheap apartment. I had a
peppy 5 speed manual Nissan Pulsar. Great car. My first run in with the Hanover
Park Police Department is the most common for most citizens. A simple parking
ticket was left under my wiper for leaving my car on the street overnight.
Unfortunately for me this is how I have come to learn. I learn by mistakes. As
many mistakes as I have made, I should be a genius by now.
Let’s
analyze this simple act. Who’s fault is it for getting the ticket? Is it mine?
Am I trying to uproot order and destroy the neighborhood by parking my car in
front of the complex? No I am not. At the time, I just didn’t care. I didn’t
know I had to. I was a fairly new driver then. Exactly where does it say in the
Illinois rules of the road book to observe parking signs? I was not trained to look for
such devices. What better way to learn
than a $15 citation. Unfortunately this naivety will come back to haunt me.
License Problem
Life
at the apartment and job was great. I managed to rack up a few speeding tickets
over the winter in that peppy little Pulsar. Being immortal and making more
money then I was spending, I did what a lot of people do. I just paid the
ticket through the mail. Who needs to go to court? Yeah, I knew my insurance
would go up, but I could afford that. At that age it’s hard to see past myself
or tomorrow. Did you know that if you get three moving violations in a year you
get a three month license suspension? I found out the hard way. Thus begins my
downward spiral and many run ins with Hanover Park Police Department.
Stupid
me thinks ok, maybe it’s time to not be as aggressive while driving for three
months. Get caught driving on a suspended license in Illinois and the state doubles your
time and adds your last span. Three months is now six months plus the original
three. Get caught again three, six and add another twelve. Over three years and
several thousand dollars later, I finally get out of the trap. While your
license is suspended, car insurance is so expensive it is out of my reach.
There’s another trap to fall into. During this phase of life I lived horribly.
I was underfed and sickly. I was in and out of work. Losing jobs to arrests for
driving while suspended, no car insurance and court dates. I lost the apartment
and now had to work local minimum wage jobs.
Bottom of the barrel
Exactly
how does one live on minimum wage? Well, I wouldn’t call it a living. I ended
up renting rooms with scrupulous people. I couldn’t spend any more than fifty
dollars a week for living expenses. My earnings went to court costs, lawyers
and cigarettes. I had to live with pot smokers, people with DUI’s, people
convicted of assault, people convicted of fraud and people getting divorced.
Ever hear the adage,” You are who you associate with.”? For the most part it is
true. The Hanover Park Police Department was involved with many people around
me. I knew the first names of more than half the officers employed in Hanover Park. It was so bad, that Hanover Park Police
Department didn’t ask for my driver’s license anymore. They just flipped back
to in their little paper notebook and looked it up.
At one time my reputation was so bad; a police officer
asked me if I knew anything about a local bank robbery. I am just a guy who has
to drive to work and can’t afford to live any better than sharing space with
criminals. I AM NOT A SOCIAL DEVIANT. I am not a criminal and have no interest
what other criminals are doing. I made a mistake and I am paying ten fold my
due. I want to get away from these criminalistic people I live with just as
much as the officer wants to arrest them. Police officers spend 90% of their
time dealing with the worst 1% of humanity. Officers become cynical, agitated
and machine like in their function. They assume the whole town is going to Hell
in a handbag. It’s their job to see what we civilians do not. They have to
disconnect to keep their sanity and “Just do their job” or lose their pension.
As a child I admired them. As an adult I pity them. Needless to say, I couldn’t
offer any help to the officer’s bank robbery question.
New Beginnings
1999 was the year I was finally back on track with my life.
I had my driver’s license. I was no longer living with the Jerry Springer
social club. I was back in college. I met my future wife. Love is a funny
thing. It was one thing if I screwed up on my own and it only affected me. Now
if I screw up, it affects her as well. Having someone else believe in me more
than I did cleared up any confusion in my head about right and wrong. I no
longer needed to learn the hard way. My instincts to morality had been honed by
her.
Problem Neighbors
After marrying my wife in May of 2000, I moved in with her
and her parents at